When something goes wrong in your life such as a failed relationship, an exam or a toxic work situation who do you first go to blame? If its someone or something other than you - you’re probably doing yourself a great disservice. In this episode I talk about taking control (within reason) of your life by focusing on your circle of control and productively appropriating blame to the only person who can take action on your behalf - you! Bonus content: I teach you how to avoid a common tourist money changing scam in Bali!